βΆWhen negotiating, should I counter the first offer?
Always negotiate, even by small amounts. Golden rule: the company expects you to counter. Research market rate first (Levels.fyi by company/level). If offered $150k and market is $170k-$190k, say 'I was expecting closer to $180k based on market data for this role.' Never accept first offer without countering, you leave 10-30% on the table. Even $5k counts: over 30 years at 3% raises, that's $250k compounding.
βΆHow do I leverage multiple offers to maximize comp?
Scenario: Offer A=$150k, Offer B=$160k. Tell B: 'I have another offer at $160k, can you go higher?' If B matches, tell A: 'I have competing offer at $160k, can you match/exceed?' This triggers counter-rounds, most companies will increase 1-2x. Golden rule: only use offers you actually have. Be transparent: 'I'm comparing multiple offers, here's market data.' Companies expect this. Typical outcome: both increase 5-15%.
βΆShould I negotiate equity, bonus, and signing bonus separately?
Negotiate the entire package together, not sequentially. When company gives salary, ask: 'What's the equity grant, signing bonus, and benefits?' Price them in one conversation. Example: if base is low, push equity higher. If equity is sparse, push signing bonus. Total comp = base + (equity annual value) + bonus + sign-on. Companies have fixed budgets per level, moving between buckets is easier than increasing total spend. Get all numbers in writing before signing.
βΆWhat's a BATNA and why does it matter?
BATNA = Best Alternative to Negotiated Agreement. Before negotiating, know your walk-away number: minimum salary you'd accept if THIS offer falls through. Research: (1) Levels.fyi for your role/level/location, (2) Blind for anonymous TC posts, (3) glassdoor for company-specific ranges. If market is $160k-$190k, set BATNA at $160k. If company lowballs at $140k, walk. Your BATNA confidence makes you negotiable, no desperation leaks.
βΆCan I negotiate a higher title or different role instead of more money?
Yes, absolutely. Titles compound across future roles. IC2βIC3 means future employers price you higher, 10-20% jump. Negotiate: title, scope, team size, autonomy, reporting level together with comp. Example: 'Base is lower than market, but if the IC3 title includes staff responsibilities and mentorship, I'm more interested.' Companies sometimes have fixed salary bands per level; different title = different band = legitimately higher pay. It's a creative lever.
βΆShould I mention my current/previous salary?
NO. It's illegal to ask in many US states + EU countries. If pushed, say: 'I'd prefer to focus on market rate for this role and my target comp, not my previous history.' If forced, lie or deflect, your previous pay has zero relevance to your value. Ignore salary history questions. If form requires it, write 'N/A' or 'Prefer not to disclose.' Companies use history to anchor you low. Don't give them that anchor.
βΆWhat if they say 'take it or leave it, no negotiation'?
Walk if it's a good fit elsewhere. But this is rare, 90% of tech/startup offers have room. Counter: 'I'm very interested in the role. Based on market data for [role/location/level], I was expecting closer to $[X]. Can we find a way to make this work?' Often unlocks discussion. If they truly refuse and you walk, no harm, you've filtered out a company that lowballs. You didn't want to work there anyway.