โถShould you have this meeting at all?
Default to 'no'. Before scheduling, ask: What decision must we make? Could email/Slack make it? If you need real-time debate (not just alignment), schedule it. If it's status updates, async doc. If it's brainstorm, time-box to 30min. Litmus test: 'In 3 months, will this meeting be what caused us to ship faster?' If no, kill it.
โถWhat is a decision matrix and RACI?
RACI = Responsible (does the work), Accountable (approves), Consulted (gives input), Informed (gets notified). Document before the meeting. FigJam RACI template: draw roles across columns, map decisions to rows, color-code. Decision matrix: rows = options, columns = criteria (speed, cost, risk). Score each. Outcome: less 'but what about' in the meeting, more 'we picked #2 for these reasons.'
โถWhen should meetings go async?
Async wins when: (1) no real-time debate needed, just alignment on written proposal; (2) participants span >3 timezones; (3) decision deadline is >48hrs away; (4) meeting was pure update/information. Turn it into a doc, Slack thread, or async Figma review. Loom video for nuance instead of live call.
โถHow do you time-box without cutting people off?
Announce the cap upfront: 'We have 20 min, goal is X decision. If we can't decide, we table and async.' Use a visible timer (FigJam timer, Miro stopwatch). When 5min left, say 'Final thoughts, then we decide.' Respect the box, people hate watching meetings that should've been 30min stretch to 60min. If the topic needs more time, that signals the framing is wrong; fix the agenda, not the clock.
โถHow do you manage one person dominating the discussion?
Prep matters. Limit speakers upfront: 'Each person 2 minutes, then we go around table.' Use written input first (Figma/FigJam 10 min of quiet brainstorm), then discuss. In real-time, use the parking lot: 'That's a great point, let's note it and come back if we have time.' Name the pattern once (not publicly): offline message: 'I notice you have a lot of energy on this, could we hear from others?' Have a quiet-voice rule: introverts share first, then open floor.
โถHow do you capture decisions so they don't get lost?
Send summary within 1 hour. Format: (1) Decision made, (2) Why (trade-offs), (3) Owner + deadline, (4) 'What changes because of this.' Use Fellow or Hypercontext to auto-capture and assign action items in meeting. 80% of meeting value comes from the written record. No summary = meeting happened, no decision actually landed.
โถHow do you handle distributed teams across timezones?
Never default to live sync. Instead: (1) async proposal in a doc, (2) Slack/email feedback window (24h), (3) live sync only for nuance/debate. Record every sync for async viewers. Rotate meeting times if recurring. Consider: APAC 8am = EMEA noon = Americas midnight. Accept that someone's time is bad; pick <2x/week. Use async tools first: Figma, FigJam, Google Docs with comments, live meetings are for decisions that actually need debate.